By Karisa Moore with Barb Lownsbury
Pumpkin spice, the sweet smell of leaves fertilizing the earth, a cooler breeze, football, and kids returning to school—there's something magical about fall that stirs our senses. It's the season where we begin pulling out our cozy sweaters and embracing the warmth of a hot drink on a brisk morning. Yet, despite these comforting moments, there's an undeniable reality: everything is dying. The vibrancy of summer gives way to falling leaves and fading landscapes. The same season that delights us also carries a sense of loss. Two very different perspectives exist on fall—one focused on the beauty of the senses, the other on the inevitability of decline.
In many ways, our relationships often mirror this seasonal rhythm. As I reflect on my early twenties, I remember a time when my life seemed to change almost overnight. Friends moved away, family dynamics shifted, and I found myself feeling unexpectedly alone. What I once relied on for connection and comfort was no longer there. It was a season of loss that left me questioning what the future held. But, just as fall paves the way for new growth, this period of transition created space for new friendships and, eventually, the most important relationship of my life—meeting my husband.
That loss was necessary for new beginnings to take root. Without the falling away of those earlier relationships, I wouldn’t have been open to the possibility of the new ones that followed. Much like the fallen leaves that fertilize the ground, allowing for future growth, the relationships that ended in my life prepared my heart for deeper connections that were yet to come. But growth wasn’t automatic. It required something essential: openness.
Openness is the key to new relationships. When we allow ourselves to remain open despite past hurts or losses, we create space for new connections. It means actively seeking out opportunities to engage with others, even when it feels easier to close off. Whether it’s through church, community events, or even unexpected encounters, placing ourselves in environments where connection can happen is vital. God uses these moments to shape our paths and introduce new people who can become meaningful parts of our lives. As Proverbs 27:17 reminds us, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." We need each other to grow, and God uses others in our lives to refine and strengthen us.
In each season, especially those marked by change, we’re faced with a choice. We can dwell on what’s lost, or we can look forward to what’s still to come. Fall reminds us that beauty can exist in the midst of change, that what seems like an ending is often the beginning of something new. The process of letting go—whether it’s in nature or in relationships—isn’t easy, but it’s necessary for growth. Openness, coupled with trust, leads us to where we need to be.
FOR FURTHER THOUGHT
As you enter your own season of change, consider where God might be inviting you to open your heart again. Are there opportunities for connection you’ve been avoiding? Maybe it’s time to get involved with a new group at church or take part in an activity you’ve been curious about. Fall is a season of transition, but it’s also one of transformation. Don’t be afraid to let go of what no longer serves you, knowing that something new, something good, is on the horizon. Trust that in letting go, you are growing forward into what God has planned.
PRAYER
Heavenly Father, I come to You with an open heart, trusting in Your plan for my life. As I navigate this season of change, help me to release what no longer serves me. I know that holding on can sometimes feel easier, but I want to grow forward, stepping into the new connections and opportunities You have for me. Guide me to the places and people where You want me to flourish. Give me the courage to let go of the old and the faith to embrace what’s next. Thank You for walking with me through each season and for the new beginnings that await. Amen.
ABOUT KARISA MOORE
Karisa Moore became a speaker on depression and finding hope after the loss of her oldest son to suicide in 2014. Through her journey, she shares the ongoing balance of joy and grief she experiences in Christ, alongside her husband and two living children. Passionate about challenging the lie that life is impossible, she draws on personal stories and biblical truth. As a QPR Suicide Gatekeeper and NAMI-certified advocate, she speaks to churches and mental health groups, offering compassion and insight into overcoming despair. Karisa is also the author of Broken Butterflies: Emerging Through Grief, A Suicide Survivor’s Poetic Journal, and blogs at The Dented Fender and Turning the Page on Suicide.
ABOUT BARB LOWNSBURY
Barb is a speaker, author, and entrepreneur. She holds Bachelor's Degrees in International History and Education, as well as a Master’s Degree in Education. Barb has spoken at conferences and taught classes throughout the U.S. on topics including faith, relationships, leadership, and courage through trials. Her book, Using What’s Broken to Boldly Shine, is a powerful read on transformation through adversity. Her blog focuses on providing people with everyday encouragement and strength. Barb serves as the Executive Director for The Dented Fender Ministry and runs a successful real estate and development company. She and her husband currently reside in Dayton, Ohio.
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